Counsel to Newly-Wed Couple

Living for God and for each other.

Ellen White wrote this to her son, Edson and daughter-in-law, Emma White in 1870. It appears in Manuscript Releases, Volume 6, page 315.

Live for the glory of God. Be tender, 14 kind, and courteous to each other. The happiness of your life will consist in making God your trust, and in seeking to make each other happy. Prac­tice self-control. It is so easy to speak thoughtlessly, words that grieve and wound. Do not venture to trifle with each others feelings. Practice patience, encour­age love, discipline yourselves to guard every word and action, and study how you can be a blessing to each other.

Love is a delicate plant; rude blasts frequently bruise it if they do not uproot it entirely.

Never make a third person your con­fidant. Your private life is sacred; keep the barriers high, that no one may pre­sume to intrude into the sacred circle. Be calm and tranquil, pa­tient, fore-bearing, and forgiving.

A word more: do not speak a word in jest that shall injure or reflect upon the other. Never recount the mistakes, or errors, or faults of each other in the presence of a third person or in company, be the circle ever so select. Live for God and for each other.

Ellen White wrote this to her son, Edson and daughter-in-law, Emma White in 1870. It appears in Manuscript Releases, Volume 6, page 315.