First Corinthinans 13 for Ministers’ Wives

Here are the enduring qualities:faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Having spent her life in a parsonage, Roxy Hoehn has a passion for pastors’ wives. She has recently retired as Women’s Ministries Director
and Shepherdess sponsor for the Kansas-Nebraska Conference, and in that capacity started the M&M retreat for Mates in Ministry. In retirement she is torn between wanting to travel, spend time with her 11 grandchildren, and staying home to take care of the yard and be a good neighbor.

  • If I can teach a good Sabbath School class and even preach a sermon, but can’t love the church members, I am only a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
  • If I have good intuition and can figure out unusual personalities and even have giant-sized faith, but have no love, I am nothing.
  • If I give my clothes to the poor and work at the Community Service Center long hours ’til I’m ready to drop, but have not love, I have no advantage.
  • Love means patience with my children, kindness and support for my husband and his ministry, and unwavering devotion to God. It means I don’t envy the best musicians in the church or brag about the things I can do.
  • Love means I’m polite, not trying to get the best for myself. It means I keep my cool and do not keep records on the church members who offend me or who criticize my husband.
  • Love doesn’t get pleasure from church gossip but celebrates the good news of babies, weddings, and baptisms.
  • I put forth every effort to protect my husband’s reputation, trust his judgment, hope for success, and keep persevering in ministry.
  • God’s love never fails. However, the time may come when nominating committees and church boards cease to exist and even sermons aren’t preached.
  • Now I have limited understanding, but when Christ comes, all my questions will be answered.
  • When I was a little girl, I looked forward to getting married. I even wanted to marry a preacher. And now I really do live in the parsonage and have exciting opportunities for ministry.
  • Some days I reflect Christ’s life poorly, but as I see His love more clearly, I want others to get a better picture of Christ through me.
  • Here are the enduring qualities: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Having spent her life in a parsonage, Roxy Hoehn has a passion for pastors’ wives. She has recently retired as Women’s Ministries Director
and Shepherdess sponsor for the Kansas-Nebraska Conference, and in that capacity started the M&M retreat for Mates in Ministry. In retirement she is torn between wanting to travel, spend time with her 11 grandchildren, and staying home to take care of the yard and be a good neighbor.