Jean Coleman is a pastoral wife from Laurel, Maryland, and the editor of The Pastor's Helpmate, a newsletter for pastoral wives. This article appeared in The Pastor's Helpmate, February 1994. Used with permission.
A Pastor's Wife Identity Crisis
Do you ever wonder just where you fit into the church picture? How is it that a pastor's wife can play such a major role in the church but yet not merit a place on the organizational chart?
Despised and Rejected
Have you ever felt like you just needed a break from your church?
What are You Doing About These "Leftovers"
What leftovers have you been saving that need to be thrown out in the trash?
Watch Your Words
No matter how trusted the friend or how loyal the leader, whenever you discuss others, use discretion! Beware of uncomplimentary comments.